I want YOU to LOVE your marriage.
Juggling your kids, your career, and your relationship is hard. Even for the experts. And, if youāre struggling to make it all work, youāre not alone.
Between the chores, the kids, and your career, youāre stretched pretty thin. There simply arenāt enough hours in the day to balance the demands of your job with the demands of your family. And, itās no surprise that your marriage has suffered.
Youāre frustrated. Youāre overwhelmed. And, youāre exhausted.
Making it all work is a real struggle.
You love your job. You love your kids. And, you love your partner.
(Well, most of the time.)
But you donāt love your marriage.
Between building your career and parenting your kids, you and your partner have grown apart. Something feels like itās missing in your marriage. Youāve lost your connection, and youāve lost your spark.
What if you could rekindle your connection?
What would it feel like if you could love your marriage again?
Hi, Iām Valery. And I know what it takes to build a better marriage.
As a practicing marriage therapist and couples counselor, Iāve spent the last 10 years helping couples rebalance, repair, and rekindle their relationships. So I know what it takes to make a marriage work.
But, Iām also a wife and a mom. So, I understand what it feels like to juggle parenting, marriage, and real-life, too.
Thatās why I love working with couples. Iāve been in your shoes.
Let me tell you about MY marriage.
A few years ago, I was pretty unhappy. On paper, everything looked great. I had a thriving private practice, a beautiful family, and life was good.
But, I was exhausted.
Raising a couple of tiny humans is hard, especially when youāre trying to balance your relationship and your career. And, I didnāt feel supported by my partner. No matter how much my husband did at home or with the baby, I always felt like I was doing more. And, it didnāt seem fair.
And that frustration and resentment drove us apart.
I didnāt want to lose my marriage, but I knew that something had to change. I also knew that going to couples counseling wasnāt for us.
Our marriage wasnāt broken.
But, it wasnāt really working either. And, traditional marriage advice didnāt help. (After all, who has time to do more date nights?) We needed to find balance in our partnership, and we needed to learn new ways to connect.
We NEEDED a new framework for making a modern marriage work. And, thatās what I want to share with you.
My Modern Marriage Framework
Problem Solving and Teamwork
How you solve problems shapes your marriage. Master the business of being married and rebalance your partnership.
Friendship and Intimacy
The quality of your friendship determines the quality of your marriage. Itās time to stop drifting apart and start reconnecting.
Communication
How you talk to your partner matters. But, if you struggle to communicate with your partner, youāre not alone. Learn how to level up your communication.
Trust and Commitment
Great relationships are emotionally safe and secure. Nurture the trust and commitment you share with your partner.
Iād love to work with you!
Are you ready to level up your relationship? Rebalance your partnership? Or simply restore your connection? I can help.